Monday, April 20, 2015

Gay Woman Defends Religious Freedom and Apologies for Gay Intolerance


Last month, the signing into law by Gov. Mike Pence the religious freedom bill in Indiana (Religious Freedom Restoration Act) drove some people insane.  The O’Connor family, who owns Memories Pizza in Walkerton, IN, soon found itself in the crosshairs after telling a local reporter that they wouldn’t cater a gay wedding, but said that they would happily serve gay customers in their establishment.  Yes, the hypothetical was absurd, but the damage was done.  Death threats, including arson, were levied upon the family. They closed their doors due to security concerns.

The Blaze’s Dana Loesch and her crew started a GoFundMe page to help the embattled family by raising nearly $850,000 in donations.  To no one’s surprise, some on the left thought this act of charity was a conspiracy from the beginning – that the O’Connor family purposefully conducted themselves in this manner to collect those donations.

The O’Connor’s horrific moment in the spotlight caught the eye of Courtney Hoffman, a business owner, who donated $20 to the family with this message:
“As a member of the gay community, I would like to apologize for the mean spirited attacks on you and your business.  I know many gay individuals who fully support your right to stand up for your beliefs and run your business according to those beliefs.  We are outraged at the level of hate and intolerance that has been directed at you and I sincerely hope that you are able to rebuild.”

Hoffman owns a kettle corn business with her partner.  In an interview on The Jeff Adams Show, she urged tolerance (via CBS San Francisco):
“We know so many gay individuals that fully support the freedom of living your life according to your beliefs and feel that freedom extends to everyone, even the people that we don’t agree with. … If we can remember that differences don’t equal maliciousness, and try to find what we have in common … maybe we can move beyond threats of violence and have open discussions of the things that we don’t agree on.”

Hoffman noted that her partner is in total agreement with her, and that the response to her donation has been very positive.

Needless to say, not everyone supported Hoffman’s actions; but since her donation, more gays have given money to the pizzeria, and she has earned the praise of many of the conservative talk shows.

Hoffman also cut through the false narrative that Memories Pizza wouldn’t serve gay customers, only that they wouldn’t cater to a private event that went against their beliefs.  “Though I may not endorse that view, I feel like we all have to respect their freedom and their right to make that choice,” Hoffman said.  “It’s just wrong to not extend freedoms that we expect to other people.”

Despite that 40% of U.S. states have their own versions of the federal Religious Freedom Restoration Act (which was signed into law by Bill Clinton in 1993) in their laws, some on the progressive left still saw this bill as a license for businesses to discriminate against gay and lesbian customers.  Truth be told, if that were the case (which it is not), then it would’ve already happened.  Only 21-states have public accommodation laws that ban discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation at private and government venues that provide a public service.

BTW: Memories Pizza did re-open to full tables, lines, and no protesters.

Rev. Dr. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr.
Chaplain (Colonel-Ret), U.S. Army
Pastor, Ft. Snelling Memorial Chapel

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